Invisible communication:

When it comes to any form of a deal or exchange there is an underlying communication that takes place that could also lead to assumptions but is in the form of suggestion or implication. This leads to non-verbally communicated expectations. In other words, some terms or rules are only suggested and not voiced. The suggestion or implication normally unconsciously leads to changes in behavior and responses that helps to bring on the reality of an outcome.

This is normally where we fail to pay attention because if we did, we would hear the person we are communicating with values, reason behind their communication, their purpose or hidden motives and even their deepest desires and beliefs. If we could always pick up on the suggested communication, we would to a degree be able to read thoughts and thus be highly intuitive. It is in this sphere of communication where influence and even negatively manipulation takes place the most often.

How to truly listen and pay attention to suggestion:

1. Be present in your thoughts during communication. (Don’t plan an answer – just pay real attention)

2. If you feel or think you pick up on non-communication communications, In other words, the communicators thoughts, investigate this by asking questions to confirm or deny it. E.g. So- you are saying…? E.g. So, do you mean….? Are you thinking…?

3. Try to remain flexible in your own mindset – remain open to any outcome, consider those suggestions and influences that align with your own values and goals.

4. Energy does not lie, if you feel positive around certain people then they have good intentions and you should remain in contact with positive influences. But in saying that protect yourself with healthy boundaries around those that you feel might be deceptive.

5. Lastly remember your thoughts are powerful, what you think and expect will most likely happen, so believe and expect positive things.

With a little practice you can become a master at influence, suggestion and non-verbal communication which would mean you will become excellent at understanding people and considered highly intuitive and even charismatic.

As Always,

Keep Improving

The Ameliorate Team

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