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Providing what you promise:

When my baby turned 2 I took him for a helicopter ride adventure – one of my first article reviews. Shortly thereafter I realized one day...

Mental benefits of giving in the right way:

In my article “The Generous Season” I took an in depth look at the value of generosity. Generosity is the willingness to give. And in the...

When you lose your mind- anxiety rescue:

We all lose our “minds” or our cool or even our happy place from time to time. I experience a numbness or lack of exhilaration from time...

Choosing Consequences:

My child’s hiding the other day re-taught me a life lesson. For a few weeks he was hanging on the Living room curtains. Every time I saw...

Weekend Blue’s- Divorced Parents Survival Tips:

The first few weekends without my child was torture. I took my time off to sleep, sleep and sleep some more. For my ex it was also a bad...

How to re-Fantasticate life:

Being spoiled meaning: “to diminish or destroy the value or quality of something or to prevent someone from enjoying something, turn...

Change, Exchange:

With most things in life there is an exchange that takes place. Money is a uniform currency we use to make exchange easier. Having money...

Confidence Recovery Process:

I recently became re-aware of why people refer to life as being a roller-coaster ride… although I prefer to think of life as being a...

Leadership or Awareness

Some people consider themselves to be leaders if they are the first of a group or their peers to do something. I myself was under a...

How to be Happy (not just feel happy):

I found that happiness is a choice, having more things can’t make you happy, even doing good deeds and helping other people can’t make...

Growth in your Garden:

This is not a blog post about gardening, but about Being the right person at the right place. I work with a lot of people who work for...

Book Review: Enemies of the Heart- A. Stanley

I love reading and decided to do a book review for my blog on a book I read from Pastor Andey Stanley. The book is all about the emotions...

Let’s Talk about Talking & Hear about Listening:

As many of my friends and family will tell you, I am extremely talkative. People really don’t like that (especially introverts and...

Self-Acceptance

“Love one another, as you love yourself”. This bible quote normally makes me think of ways to show the people around me that I care for...

Perception Reflection:

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. How I see other people reveals a lot about myself. How they see and treat me shows me a lot about...

Control & Risk in Time:

Control is a man-made illusion. When we look at how life changes, our levels and perception of the amount of control we must get...

The Whole Elephant:

How do you eat an Elephant? Bite by bite and bit by bit. I have found that people try to eat the elephant whole. If you look at the...

Life Goes On:

We all dream of a pot below the rainbow or may have a unicorn we want to catch. Someday we are lucky or blessed and get the pot and catch...

The 4 Steps to build your Momentum:

I recently visited Hillsong Church Centurion and listened to a sermon by Pastor Phil on building momentum, the sermon was so powerful...

Pudding Proof

As most of you following my blog and articles know by now, I am divorced. It is generally not considered such a big deal in our society...

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